Hi, My name is Diane

I have lived in Whitianga for the last 30 years with my husband Richard where we have raised our 3 children who now live across New Zealand and Australia.

Previously having spent the last several decades travelling, discovering beaches, spending time with my children, gardening, owning a roofing and scaffolding company, and working for St. John as an Emergency Medical Technician, I have now embarked on a new journey.

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Why I became an end-of-life companion

Death is something every one of us will experience, yet it remains a topic many people find difficult to talk about. My work as an end-of-life companion is about changing that conversation – creating space for honesty, connection, dignity and support during one of life’s most significant transitions.

The idea for this service began about three years ago following the sudden passing of my mother. Her death left me reflecting on all the conversations we never had, the stories I never heard, and the many unanswered questions I was left carrying. It made me realise how valuable those opportunities are – to talk, to share memories, to express wishes, and to simply be present with the people we love.

For many years I have worked and still do as an Emergency Medical Technician with St John, where I witness first-hand the moments when families are faced with unexpected loss, grief and the reality of saying goodbye. I see the importance of calm support, compassionate presence and someone being there to guide families through incredibly difficult moments.

These experiences led me to recognise an opportunity to support people and their families when faced with a life-limiting illness, preparing for end of life, or navigating the emotional journey that comes with approaching death.

It is a privilege to be invited into such deeply personal time in people’s lives. I approach every family with kindness, compassion and respect, honouring each person’s journey and walking beside them at a pace that feels right for them.

If you would like to know more about how I can support you or someone you love, I would be honoured to hear from you.

My Philosophy of Care

My approach to end-of-life care is centred on compassion, dignity, presence, and respect for each person’s unique journey.

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Advance Care Planning and Legacy Work

I assist individuals to explore and document their wishes for future care, while also supporting opportunities to create meaningful memories, life reviews, letters, keepsakes, and other legacy projects.

Emotional and Family Support

I support both the dying person and those who them, recognise that serious illness affects and the entire family. I provide reassurance, education, practical guidance, and a steady presence throughout the journey.

Compassionate Communication

I communicate openly, honesty, and sensitively with individuals and their families. I listen deeply, encourage meaningful conversations, and help facilitate discussions about wishes, fears, and priorities.

Compassionate Presence

I provide a calm, reassurance presence, offering emotional support without judgement. I understand that simply being present can be one of the greatest gifts during the dying process.

Comfort and Non-Medical Support

I offer practical, non-clinical comfort measures that promote relaxation, dignity, and quality of life, while working alongside medical and palliative care teams.

Advocacy and Care Co-ordination

I help individuals and families understand available services, navigate community supports, and advocate for care that reflects the person’s goals and preferences.

Person-Centred Care

I honour each person’s values, beliefs, cultural traditions, spirituality, and personal wishes, ensuring they remain at the centre of all care and decision-making.

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My Commitment to You and Your Family

I do not charge for my End-of-Life Companion services.

The end-of-life journey can be emotionally, physically and financially overwhelming. Families are often trying to balance medical appointments, caring responsibilities, work commitments and the many practical decisions that come with a life-limiting illness. The last thing I want is for someone to decide they cannot access support because they are worried about the cost.

I believe compassionate care should be available to everyone, regardless of their financial circumstances.

My role as an End-of Life Companion is offered freely, with kindness respect and generosity of spirit. Whether you need someone to listen to help you navigate difficult conversations, to sit quietly with a loved one, or to provide guidance through the final stages of life, my support is available without charge.

The greatest privilege of this work is being invited to walk alongside individuals and families during one of life’s most significant journeys.

If you feel that I may be able to support you or someone you love, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Your first conversation is simply that – a conversation. Together we can explore your needs and discuss how I may be able to help you.